My sister-in-law and friends bought the manual bidet so I've been wanting one for a long time but, honestly, bidet? Yes, we were also awkward and silly when it came to talking about this. So, I finally decided to buy one as we wanted to save money and water.After years of researching, reading, watching, and reviewing, I decided to buy this. My husband and boys gave in and now, they cannot live without it. Asking to buy another for the inside bathroom but we have a French toilet seat so this does not fit.So far, we noticed we don't need to buy toilet paper from Costco as often. Unfortunately, everyone now uses the front bidet bathroom so it does become a fight sometimes.Our guests came over and they LOVE the bidet. They enjoyed the heated seat and water and the comfort of the seat. My sister-in-law boyfriend is 7' tall and 250lbs and the seat has no problem holding him up.1. It had all the functions that I wanted: Heated seat/water, night light, water pressure control, front and back wash, child wash, and nozzle cleaning.2. Easy to install, just remove your existing seat, place tis on top, slide it in, connect water hose and plug in. Instant, no leaks, no trouble.3. Good price4. Makes me wipe the toilet down after every use so the toilet is super clean.Pros:-Easy to install-Comes with all the necessity to install. No need to purchase extras.-Cord is 18" so we used and extension to plug into our wall outlet.-Seat is sturdy and comfortable.-Heated seat level 1 was warm enough (has 3 levels)-Warm water level 1 was warm enough (has 3 levels)-Can clean nozzle whenever you want to-Remote is landscaped about 5" wide and 3" high easy to understand and use.-Comes with adjustable water pressure and spray distance control (but we don't use this)Cons:-Water does spray. We never had a bidet so my kid screamed. Finding out that she did not place her bottom to completely cover the seat. Water sprayed out but not strong enough to wet her back. Just surprised her.-I'm a clean freak so I do have to lift seat and wipe after use. It can be a hassle if you aren't cleaning after use but if you do not care, it isn't an issue.Overall, I LOVE this bidet and looking forward (crossing fingers) to many years of use. It has made cleaning your bottom and front EASY and it is so refreshing.If you are like us and hesitating because of awkwardness, cost, or... DON'T WAIT. Regardless of which model you buy, they are worth it. I wish I had purchased this during the run on toilet papers but I'm glad we don't have to fight over them if there is a shortage again.